Buying a House During Divorce in Florida

March 20, 20263 min read

Buying a Home During Divorce in Florida: What You Need to Know About Mortgage Approval

Divorce can be one of the most financially complex transitions in life. If you’re trying to purchase a home while separating from a spouse, the mortgage process requires special planning.

The good news is that many people successfully buy homes during divorce with the right guidance.

Can You Get a Mortgage While Still Married?

Yes, but lenders must evaluate existing joint debt obligations.

Key considerations include:

  • current mortgage responsibility

  • joint credit cards

  • support obligations

  • temporary court orders

Until the divorce is finalized, many debts may still be considered shared financial responsibility.

Debt-to-Income Ratio Challenges

If you are still legally tied to a spouse’s mortgage or other debts, lenders may count those payments against your debt-to-income ratio (DTI).

Solutions sometimes include:

  • refinance of the marital home

  • documented separation agreements

  • court-ordered debt assignments

Using Divorce Settlement Income

Income from the divorce settlement may count toward mortgage qualification if it is:

  • documented in the court order

  • stable and consistent

  • expected to continue for at least 3 years

This may include:

  • alimony

  • child support

Depending on the loan program, however, you may need to received it for 3-6 months and must continue for 3 years from the time of the loan closing to be used as qualifying income.

Credit Considerations

Divorce can impact credit due to:

  • missed or late payments (sometimes the hurt/angry spouse will "show you" by being late to hurt your credit or by splitting the bills, the money may simply not be there to make the payments

  • shared accounts needing to be closed

  • increased debt which increased debt utilization = lower credit scores and also higher debt ratios

I can help evaluate whether your credit is mortgage-ready or if small adjustments could improve approval chances.

Steps to Protect Yourself Financially

  • obtain a copy of your credit report

  • separate joint accounts when possible, remove yourself or your future ex from any 'authorized user' accounts

  • document court-ordered payments (or missed payments)

  • consult both a divorce attorney and mortgage professional early

Next Steps

Buying a home during divorce requires careful planning, but it is absolutely possible. Timing and divorce settlement language is important. ****Please note, that if you are obtaining a new loan to either refinance or purchase and it is for your primary residence, if your divorce is not yet finalized, your future ex-spouse is required by law to sign acknowledging the mortgage that is being placed as a lien against your primary home. They are not on the promissory note; they are not listed on the mortgage or on title (ownership), but it will list "your name, a married (man/woman/person)" on ownership if you are still legally married. There are no work arounds for this, even if your spouse is incarcerated, overseas, or refusing to cooperate. Keep this in mind as many people choose to wait until the divorce is final for this reason. A copy of the final divorce decree/settlement is required to be presented to your lender and title company you are closing with.

If you are considering staying in your home and completing a buy-out of your future ex-spouse, meaning taking on a new loan through a refinance to pay off the joint mortgage and give them their agreed upon portion of the equity, and the divorce decree states this, then we treat the new loan not as a cash-out refinance, but as a rate/term. This means a better interest rate for you than with a cash-out refinance, and we can go up to 95% of the value of the home on a conventional refinance loan. Closing costs can be rolled in to the new loan, and you can start the next chapter of your life.

If you are navigating this transition in Florida, I can help review your situation confidentially and explore the best mortgage strategy for your next chapter.

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